Embarking on the journey of anal play can be an exciting and intimate experience, offering a realm of pleasure and exploration for individuals and couples alike. However, it's essential to approach this practice with care, respect, and a comprehensive understanding of anatomy.If you plan on using any of the products from our collection of anal toys, knowing how to prepare for anal play is extremely important for safety, comfort, and pleasure! Here are guided instructions for getting started with your anal toys:
Cleansing
For those who are new to anal/prostate play, taking a shower or bath is a good starting point. While it's not strictly necessary, a douche or enema is a great way to clean up and relax at the same time which will help make insertion more pleasant. If you plan on doing internal cleansing, it should be done prior to showering or bathing.
Prepare an Area
Now that you're relaxed and ready to go, it's a good idea to prepare an area for your session. For most people this involves a bed covering to keep things dry.
Lubrication
Using a good quality water-based lubricant or a specialized anal lubricant, apply a liberal coating to the body of the toy from the head to the stem. (Many toys are not compatible with silicone or petroleum-based oil lubricants, so please check to see what lubricants are compatible with your toys)
Initial Insertion
Laying on your back or your side, slowly and gently massage the exterior of your anus with the head of the massager, making shallow penetration from time to time. This will relax the muscle and also introduce a small amount of lubrication internally. Slowly start to move the head of the massage into your anus. Breathe deeply and release, this relaxes your body and will make your more comfortable.
Self Insertion
Continue pressing inward slowly. At a certain point the massager will become self inserting, and your body will take the rest in on its own. Take a few minutes and a few deep relaxing breathes. Allow your body to become accustomed to the sensation of the toy without and movement.
Contracting Your PC Muscles
Squeeze your PC (pubococcygeus) muscle group. This is the muscle that you can contract to stop the flow of urine. It's also the group of muscles that contract during ejaculation. Squeezing these muscles causes the anus to tighten and pull inward and upward. As a result, the body of the toy pivots on the front tab externally, acting like a fulcrum. Each contraction levers the shaft of your toy towards your prostate while stimulating your anus, P and K-spots simultaneously.
Relaxing Your PC Muscles
When you relax the muscle, the toy pivots outward returning to its original position. Your ability to use your PC muscle gives you the ideal control over the speed and pressure of your toy, and with a little practice you can create different sensations on your prostate.
Exploring
Try squeezing your PC muscle in short bursts or hold it for a longer time. Experiment with timing it with stimulation of your penis or explore it on its own. Since your pelvic muscles also squeeze and relax during sexual stimulation, you can also allow the natural contractions of your pelvis to control the motion instead of doing it deliberately. Natural contractions can take some practice to tune into, but they will allow you to enjoy much longer sessions.
Conclusion
Anal play can be a deeply fulfilling and intimate experience. By prioritizing hygiene and lubrication, you can explore the pleasures of anal play safely and responsibly. Remember, the key to a satisfying experience lies in listening to your body and embracing the journey of exploration.